( For guys ) 12 ways on how to kiss your girlfriend or wife

1. When ever you want to kiss your girl or wife make sure you brush your teeth, chew gum, and avoid strong-smelling food, also take a shower, wash your hair to avoid smell.

2. While alone with her before you kiss, it might be good to compliment her sincerely — tell her something that you love about her. Don't do this just to do it though. Mean what you say. This helps create the right mood and will put the focus on her, which is where it should be.

3. Start making physical contact between you and her before you kiss — lightly touch her shoulder or arm. Holding hands is also great and especially appropriate if she's your girlfriend.

4. When that kissing moment comes, shut up and start making eye contact with her. Let that tension build on you.

5. Make sure she is at the moment of kissing you too. If at any point she seems uncomfortable with you touching her or starts backing away from you, then you should stop.

6. If she is in the mood  of kissing you.
  Go in for the kiss with lips slightly parted like you're about to say something.

7. Tilt your head slightly slowly to avoid collisions. Just a slight tilt will do — most of the time you should tilt to the right, but you should still make sure they're going the opposite way!.

8. Close your eyes while kissing her. No one likes opening their eyes and be seeing someone that is staring at them.

9. As you continue kissing her, give soft kisses with a gently opening of  mouth that focus on one lip or the other. Use your hands wisely. Touch her hair, face, back, neck, and shoulders.

10. When you are ready to use your tongue, slide your tongue in a little bit. Never force it.
gentle is the name of the game: a little tongue goes a long way and perform lot of things.

11. Take some time to kiss her on the cheek, the ear and the neck.

12. Take your time. Don't be in a rush!
After the kiss, smile with her. You don't need to say anything right away. Just enjoy the moment.